Common Fears and How to Overcome Them

It’s completely normal for children (and parents!) to feel a little anxious before their first riding lesson. Horses are big, and riding is a new experience. Here are some common fears and how we help kids overcome them:

“What if I fall off?”

Falling is a common worry, but with proper instruction and gentle horses, it’s very rare—especially in beginner lessons. We teach kids how to sit securely, hold the reins, and listen to their horse. Instructors are always close by, ready to help if a child feels unsteady. We also use mounting blocks and lead lines to keep things safe.

“What if the horse doesn’t like me?”

Horses are naturally curious and gentle, especially those chosen for lessons. We teach kids how to approach and greet a horse, and encourage them to talk softly and offer a gentle pat. Building a bond takes time, but most children are surprised at how quickly a horse responds to kindness.

“Horses are so big!”

Yes, horses are large animals, and that can be intimidating. We start by introducing children to smaller, calm horses or ponies, and let them spend time on the ground before riding. Learning about horse behavior—like how they use their ears and eyes to communicate—helps kids feel more comfortable.

“I’m afraid I’ll do something wrong.”

Mistakes are part of learning! Our instructors create a supportive, no-pressure environment where kids are encouraged to try, ask questions, and learn from every experience. We celebrate effort and progress, not just perfection.

“Will it hurt?”

Riding uses new muscles, so a little soreness is normal after the first lesson. We encourage gentle stretching before and after riding, and remind kids that it gets easier with practice.

Parental Anxiety:

It’s natural for parents to feel protective. Rest assured, our team is dedicated to safety and communication. We’re happy to answer your questions, explain our procedures, and help you feel confident in your child’s experience.