What to Expect When You Start Horseback Riding Lessons at WildHeart Riding School

How Do I Build Trust With the Horse?

Building trust with a horse doesn’t begin the moment you step into the saddle—it starts on the ground.

Horses are prey animals by nature, which means they are highly sensitive to their environment and rely on subtle cues to feel safe. In fact, studies show horses can detect a human’s emotional state through body language and tone of voice, often mirroring our nervousness or calm.

At WildHeart Riding School, we emphasize groundwork as the true beginning of your riding journey.

Before every ride, students are taught to connect with their horse through grooming, talking softly, and leading exercises. These early moments are more than just prep—they’re how you show the horse you’re trustworthy.

Horses respond to consistency, calm energy, and predictability. A rushed or frustrated handler can make a horse anxious, while someone who is gentle and confident can help a nervous horse settle.

We guide each student on how to approach, touch, and move around their horse respectfully. This includes learning to watch the horse’s ears, eyes, tail, and breathing for signals of trust or discomfort. A relaxed lower lip, soft blinking eyes, and even a lowered head are all signs that a horse feels safe.

Equine scientists have also found that grooming can reduce a horse’s heart rate and elevate oxytocin levels in both the horse and the human, enhancing mutual trust.

That’s why grooming isn’t rushed at WildHeart—it’s part of the relationship-building process. When riders understand that the horse is a thinking, feeling partner, the experience transforms.

Trust doesn’t happen instantly, but it builds with each consistent, kind interaction. By the time you mount up, your horse already knows what kind of rider you’ll be.

And when trust is present, riding becomes more fluid, intuitive, and deeply rewarding.

Whether you're a 6-year-old just learning to post a trot or an adult seeking connection and peace, developing a bond with your horse is where it all begins.